People say that some need to learn their lesson in a hard way. Well, this applies to me today. One moment of greed costs me a day of pain in both my heart and wallet. Can I say that this is a blessing in disguise? It'll definitely benefit me in days to come. Being a regular human being, everyone makes mistakes and I'm of no exception. Its just that maybe this blow is way too hard for me to handle at first. For a moment there I thought God wants me dead but now I'm at peace knowing that everything happens for a reason. Its just that you need to figure it out yourself. Never again will I walk this path, that's for sure. At least I'm safe, not to mention wiser now X)
Conclusion: Lesson learnt and I'm kinda glad this happens to me. Not too late for me to turn over a new leaf I guess.
Tuesday, 13 December 2011
Monday, 12 December 2011
What happens now?
This is what I read while browsing through the net today. It showed how noble a guy can be and yet some of it wasn't really true.
Here is how it goes:
Girls need to realize: We guys don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls>OR TEXTS< you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. That it can't wait till the morning. Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood I'm in. Let us pay for you! Don't 'feel bad' We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say 'thank you. Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed. You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up. Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that. Whatever happened to the word "handsome'/ 'beautiful' I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/sexy' or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand I'm not saying I wouldn't like it ether.
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say 'i love you' ..and actually mean it.
How true is it I wonder? Anyways, it is just some crappy nonsense, just forget bout it X)
Back to things that happened today. A group of friends to hang out with is always better than staying alone at home, facing the computer and rot by yourself. Some conflicts are bound to happen but as long as we stay respectful towards one another, things will be great somehow or somewhat. There is just one thing that crossed my mind, being too dependent on somebody else will eventually make you look stupid, no? Or at least I think so. In my case, having no transport to move around is a problem, therefore I require someone else to ferry me around. Aish, I wished I have just drove up here instead.
Next, finals which is around the corner. Studying at the very last minute is always a bad move, but it has always been my practice for like forever. I'll just procrastinate till when I'm done lazing around. Gawd, bless me please! Motivation(where to find?) is all I need to get my lazy butt up and start doing what I'm supposed to do since few months back.
Here is how it goes:
Girls need to realize: We guys don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls>OR TEXTS< you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. That it can't wait till the morning. Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood I'm in. Let us pay for you! Don't 'feel bad' We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say 'thank you. Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed. You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up. Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that. Whatever happened to the word "handsome'/ 'beautiful' I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/sexy' or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand I'm not saying I wouldn't like it ether.
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say 'i love you' ..and actually mean it.
How true is it I wonder? Anyways, it is just some crappy nonsense, just forget bout it X)
Back to things that happened today. A group of friends to hang out with is always better than staying alone at home, facing the computer and rot by yourself. Some conflicts are bound to happen but as long as we stay respectful towards one another, things will be great somehow or somewhat. There is just one thing that crossed my mind, being too dependent on somebody else will eventually make you look stupid, no? Or at least I think so. In my case, having no transport to move around is a problem, therefore I require someone else to ferry me around. Aish, I wished I have just drove up here instead.
Next, finals which is around the corner. Studying at the very last minute is always a bad move, but it has always been my practice for like forever. I'll just procrastinate till when I'm done lazing around. Gawd, bless me please! Motivation(where to find?) is all I need to get my lazy butt up and start doing what I'm supposed to do since few months back.
Saturday, 10 December 2011
First ever post
I've been told that blogging is a waste of time and look at me now. I'm blogging, yeah. After all these years, I've come to learn that blogging actually helps in relieving the tense in you. Sissy u say? To hell with you. Feeling annoyed, I'm here writing my first ever post. Things hadn't been exactly good for me. Come to think of it, its scary how besties can turn out to be sworn enemy. I wouldn't say I regret, but maybe coming to this uni isn't the best choice around. But still, its done and there's no way I can turn time around. So might as well live my own life. So they say, "why lead a sad life when the choice is in your hand?" There are still people out there who are wayyyyy better so I shouldn't condemn them all, right?
And come to think of it, I've been left out of today's movie's session. Kinda disappointed but nothing I can do bout it. X) What more, maybe I can use the time for my assignments? Maybe not. I'd rather stare at the ceiling.
And come to think of it, I've been left out of today's movie's session. Kinda disappointed but nothing I can do bout it. X) What more, maybe I can use the time for my assignments? Maybe not. I'd rather stare at the ceiling.
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